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What is MLM or Network Marketing?

I had not intended to actually begin my business until December 1, 2012.  I had a few things that I needed to finish up during the month of November before I could concentrate fully on getting my new business up and running.

That plan, however, was derailed, but it was derailed in a good way.  I have had quite a few people already ask if they could join my new business.

THIS  is what I teach people.  People join people they know, like and trust.  I’ve positioned myself over the years in front of these people.  They didn’t even know yet what company I was joining, but said “I want to be on your team”.   That is powerful.  My new business is an MLM (Network Marketing) company.

What is MLM or Network Marketing?

Let me first explain what happened to me in 1985 shortly after I graduated high school.  I was approached by a gentleman who was involved in a company called Amway.  He explained the business to me by drawing a bunch of circles on a white board and talking about leveraging the time and efforts of others.  He explained a business where you not only get paid on your efforts but on the efforts of everyone you bring in as a business partner and everyone they partner with and so forth.   I LOVED that concept.  I’m always looking for ways to work smarter, not harder.

However, I was young and didn’t really understand what I had.  I tried this whole thing called Network Marketing or MLM (Multi Level Marketing) and it just didn’t work so I quit.  I joined a few different companies over the years, but really didn’t know what I was doing or how to do it.  About 12 years ago I decided to buckle down and really learn this business.  I got involved with a home party company called Petra Fashions.   I would go to people’s homes and do parties for them and sell lingerie.  I loved it!!  I had fun, I made money and it was great.  After a few years, my friends and their friends and everyone I talked to had more lingerie than they knew what to do with and the business just kind of fizzled out.

That’s when I realized if I was going to do this and have it last, I needed products that people would want to purchase over and over again.  Consumable products.  Over the past 10 years, I joined a couple different companies and learned a LOT through trial and error.  Most was error, but that taught me what doesn’t work.  In 2005 I joined a company and took all that I learned over the years and implemented some strategies (still learning more as time went by) and built a good sized business.  I was having fun and making money and it was the best of both worlds.  During that time, I was also teaching classes for people who were building businesses just like me.

In 2010, I decided that teaching was what I felt led to do.  I also, however, felt that being involved in my own MLM company while coaching others would be a conflict of interest.  I didn’t want my clients to feel uncomfortable thinking I may want them to join my business.  So, I left my network marketing company and began my coaching business.  Over the past two years I realized something.  I was teaching others to be successful in THEIR businesses and they were making more money than I was doing coaching.

So…after some soul searching and talking to others, I decided to get back into MLM because I was leaving a lot of money on the table.

Here’s the best part about working an MLM company…I get paid a commission on anything that people purchase from my site.  Just like any other sales person in the world.  The difference is that I get a larger commission than most salespeople do.  Most times, a salesperson sells a product and they get a very low percentage of the cost of the product.  This is because in order to bring the product to market, the product generally goes through channels.  The more people and advertising involved in bringing a  product to the end consumer, the less commission can be paid to the salesperson.  Even large stores like Walmart or Target or Wegmans, etc… have costs involved with bringing their products to the end consumer.  This means either the price goes up or the store gets less money.   With MLM, the product generally goes direct from the manufacturer to the consumer.  The person who introduces the consumer to the product gets a bigger portion of the pie because there are no other channels involved.  No advertising.  It’s all word of mouth by the independent representative (rep) to the consumer.

There is a popular program out there by Direct TV.  If a Direct TV customer recommends the company to a friend and the friend starts their own service, Direct TV gives a $10 credit for 10 months to the person who referred the new customer.  BUT…in this case, they are capped at the amount of their bill.   If their bill is $50/mo and they refer 10 friends, they only get a $50 credit for 10 months.  After the 10 months, they are done.  But…with MLM, I continue to get paid a commission (actual money, not just a credit on my products) as long as the person remains a customer or a rep.

What Excuses Do You Make?

Are you making excuses? I hear so many people saying they can’t do this or that because of the economy. Or maybe it’s some other excuse why you can’t/won’t do what you need to do to become successful. Just today, I had a gentleman who read my previous post and replied with this:

I will never want to gain because of a mistake you made. (There are some who may.) You may have got lost in your attempts and that is forgivable.

Press on and He will be with you. Give and it will be given to you!

When I replied and explained that my special low price offers were not made out of guilt, even though I am guilty of not following my own advice.  The offers were made due to the fact that I will be focusing in a different direction and want everyone who had used the “can’t afford it” excuse in the past to be able to afford these programs.

After receiving the explanation, this person replied with:

Hi Roxanne,

I see. Thank you. It appears that I did not fully understand you. My apologies.

You have been very kind to me and I will not forget all that.

I am kept busy with what I am doing and I will not use your kind offer.

AMAZING…sometimes people feel the need to justify the decisions they make.  Maybe it’s the economy, maybe it’s fear based, maybe it’s (insert any reason here).  When the first excuse gets blown out of the water, they feel the need to make up another.

It’s human nature.  Sometimes we voice these excuses to others and sometimes we just tell them to ourselves.  What excuses are you telling yourself?  Are you making excuses for your lack of success?  Are you making excuses for why you can’t/won’t get your life in order?

I have a dear friend who spends all day long on the computer.  She plays facebook games for hours.  GAMES!!  But…she will be the first one to complain she has no money and no time.  If she took just an hour or so per day out of her numerous hours of play time, she could be earning an income online.  But…she doesn’t.  She would rather make excuses and complain about money.

So…what are the excuses you tell yourself?

Could you find an hour or so a day somewhere to start your own business?  Maybe you already have one like the gentleman I referred to earlier, but aren’t making any money.

No one can help you until you are ready to help yourself.  Make a decision today to stop making excuses and start making a better life for yourself and your family.   Either visit my previous post and check out the programs I offer or use the email link on the right to email me and tell me your situation and ask how I can help.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.  What will you do with it?